It’s time for a reality check. 

🔮 Story #1: I was thinking way too small.

For the longest time, I was thinking of my business (and life) all wrong. 

My goals looked like this:

• I want everyone to know who I am. 

• I want to look picture perfect and have my face be everywhere.

• I want my friends to see that I’ve made it. 

🚩🚩🚩 I was thinking of everyone, except myself.

So, my days were a complete and overwhelming mess.

I spent most of my time stalking my competitors on social media and obviously ended up feeling like $hit every time. 

😔  “Why was I not like those women?” 

😔  “Are they better than me?”

😔  “Am I a loser?” 

These are the thoughts that occupied all of my energy. So naturally...

My strategy was basically to try and keep up with all the fads (so that I can be like all the “successful” people online. 

🤦  Buying a material item just because it was “ in” and not because I loved it.

🤦  Going to places and events just for the Instagram-worthy moments. 

🤦  Writing captions that make me seem much more high energy than I actually am.

I did it all. 

Every time a new trend showed up, I basically had to re-shift my entire focus. 

It’s what I thought I had to do to succeed. 

Why? Because every other successful person on social media seemed to be doing it as well. 

I relied on (seemingly) successful people online to tell me what will make me a winner.But it slipped my mind that what works for them... won’t necessarily work for me. 

I was thinking way too small because my goals were dictated by OTHERS - rather than my own desires, values, emotions, and life goals.

I didn’t have the confidence to believe that I can build a business on my OWN TERMS.

😬 It had to stop. I had to turn things around so I decided to do the EXACT OPPOSITE of everything my mind said I “should” do. 

When I started working on building a business that puts MY VALUES and emotions FIRST - that’s when I started to really think big.

✨ Thinking big meant running a business while being true to myself. ✨

Use this self-coaching workbook to realign your business with YOURSELF and begin to think big. 

🔮 Story 2: I was sabotaging myself and my business until I realized ONE thing.

I didn’t start my business to be a slave to it.  I had big (but simple) dreams for myself. 

🤷‍♀️ I wanted to be happy, and at peace with myself. 

🤷‍♀️ I wanted money to be no object so I can give my family and friends whatever they need, whenever they need. 

🤷‍♀️ I wanted to be able to have the flexibility to travel when I want and treat myself occasionally with a shopping spree at Louis Vuitton.

But it seemed like every day my dreams got further away. 

😖 The more I tried to keep up with my to-do list…

😖 The more I got frustrated…

😖 The less I got done.

I woke up each morning feeling like I was somehow ALREADY behind on my to-do list. 

And every time that happened, I became harsher on myself.

🚩🚩🚩 I spoke to myself in ways I would never let anyone speak to me. 

I’d give you examples, but I don’t want to rehash the toxicity.  Safe to say I was destroying my confidence and that almost destroyed my business. 

I was so deep into self-sabotage I didn’t even notice the relationship between my lack of confidence and the state of my business. 

That’s what friends (and coaches) are for. 

The universe alerted me that I had it all wrong. While I spent my days fixated on “what I need to do” I should have instead invested my energy on a completely different question…

✨  “What do I need to BELIEVE to achieve my goals” ✨